Let's see if I have this right.
First, we can discuss an
idea if we are willing to learn the other person's POV, and we can
learn only if we are willing to listen and ask questions.
Second,an intellectual discussion should stick to the question, and avoid replies like, "Oh, only Karl Marx would think that!" Give reasons for your disagreement, or explain your reservations if you basically agree.
Third, control your emotions and back off if the disputant becomes emotional. If you can't stay in control, admit it and back off.
Last, it's OK to ask iffy or hypothetical questions; questions about objective or subjective matters. Just know what you're asking.
Sounds OK to me, but I have an obsessive/compulsive personality and can really get hung up on things. What then?
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